Tim Chevalier on Living Amid Abuse

[noahgibbs]

http://tim.dreamwidth.org/1993282.html

You may have already read it. If not, give it a go. You're likely to figure out pretty quickly if it's for you.

If you've recently asked, and meant it, "how can anybody be *against* more safe spaces?", it's for you. *And* you won't like it.

Comments

[klrmn.livejournal.com]

thanks for posting the link. explains some things in my life.

[tshuma]

"What's more, you know how to function in those situations; you have a sense of what the social codes might be."

This is why it took me so very long to find something resembling a good relationship. I had to work my way through many a dysfunctional one before I started identifying what something good for me might look like.